Creating a Legacy of Financial Wisdom for Our Kids
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For many of us, money was a mystery growing up. Some of us saw our parents struggle, living paycheck to paycheck, always stressed about the next bill. Others had parents who seemed to have it all together financially but never taught us how to manage money ourselves. Either way, when we became adults, we had to figure it out—often through trial and error.
But what if our kids didn’t have to learn the hard way?
I recently had the opportunity to talk with Dr. Paul Blake, author of The Genius Next Door, and his insights on financial parenting were eye-opening. He explains that financial education alone doesn’t change behavior—if it did, we’d all be much better with money by now. The key isn’t just knowing about finances. It’s about learning to make wise financial choices and developing habits that build generational wealth.
Why Financial Wisdom is a Family Issue
One of the biggest myths about money is that if we just teach kids about saving and budgeting, they’ll be financially responsible. But the reality is, financial wisdom isn’t something kids absorb from a textbook. They learn it from watching us.
“Teaching kids smart spending habits early—like price-checking before buying—helps them become wiser with money.”
— Dr. Paul Blake
If we constantly swipe our credit cards at Target, they notice. If we talk about tithing and generosity but never actually model it, they notice. If we let money slip through our fingers without ever making a plan, they notice.
The good news? Just like kids can pick up bad habits, they can also pick up good ones.
The Missing Piece: Motivation
Dr. Blake shared something that stuck with me: Financial literacy and financial behavior are not linked. You can teach kids all the money principles in the world, but unless they are motivated to save and invest, those lessons won’t stick.
So how do we motivate them?
Many parents use the classic “save this percentage, spend this percentage” model. But let’s be honest—that sounds boring to most kids. Instead, Dr. Blake suggests teaching kids the power of investment interest—but in a way that’s exciting.
He calls it “free money.”
The idea is to help kids see that saving isn’t about sacrifice—it’s about gaining freedom.
“Most young adults aren’t motivated to save for college, but what if we helped them front-load their savings instead of waiting until later?”
— Dr. Paul Blake
Instead of telling them to set money aside for some far-off future, he recommends giving them an immediate benefit. For example, a parent or grandparent could offer an incentive: “For every $50 you save, I’ll give you an extra $10 you can spend now.”
That small, immediate reward is enough to shift a child’s mindset from “saving is restrictive” to “saving gives me options.”
Investing with Dad
Another powerful concept he introduced is letting kids “invest with Dad” (or Mom, or a trusted adult). Instead of allowing kids to keep their savings in a low-interest bank account—or worse, in cash where they can easily spend it—parents can offer to hold onto their savings and pay them a higher interest rate.
If the bank offers 1%, but Dad offers 10%, where do you think the kids will want to put their money?
“Saving isn’t just about the future; it’s about creating freedom. The earlier you start, the more options you’ll have.”
— Dr. Paul Blake
This teaches them how investments work, builds trust, and helps them see real returns. And when they start earning actual interest payouts—money they get to spend while their principal stays intact—they get excited. They start seeing the power of long-term financial planning.
Why Financial Wisdom Matters
Here’s something to think about:
If a child starts aggressively saving between ages 15 and 25, they could realistically save $125,000. When invested wisely, that money could grow into a million dollars by retirement.
Most people think saving for retirement happens in your 40s and 50s, but what if the best time was actually in your teens and early 20s?
What if, instead of barely scraping by in their later years, our kids could have financial freedom before they even hit middle age?
The Big Picture of Financial Wisdom
Teaching financial wisdom isn’t just about giving our kids a good start—it’s about creating generational stability. We may have inherited good financial habits—or bad ones—but we get to decide what we pass on.
And while we can’t control everything about the future, we can give our kids the tools they need to make wise financial choices. We can teach them that money is a resource, not a master. We can show them that financial freedom isn’t about having more—it’s about making intentional choices.
And most importantly, we can remind them that their worth isn’t tied to their wealth. That generosity, faith, and responsibility matter more than a bank balance.
The best inheritance we can leave isn’t just money—it’s wisdom.
“We may have inherited good financial habits—or ones that were lacking. The question is, what will we pass on?”
— Dr. Paul Blake
So, where do we start? By having real conversations, making a plan, and modeling the kind of financial habits we want them to have.
Find the full podcast episode here!
What’s one financial lesson you wish you had learned earlier? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments!
Additional Resources
Looking for a book you can enjoy together as a family? Try this one!
Also, here’s a great resource to create a screen-free family reading or devotional time.
Looking for more parenting tips? Check out Faith that Sticks!
